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This is effective communication without all of the fancy bells and whistles. One minute of amateur video makes your point better than a few thousand carefully-crafted words.
One of the great things about the way you use your platform is that you just put yourself out there--wysiwyg. Above any content, that's what I learn from this circle. Thanks.
You asked "What would you tell the people who say that you make it look easy? Let’s talk about your overnight success, shall we? "
Though my success is not quite the caliber of yours -My overnight success took more than four years. Last month it was Los Angeles, today it's Las Vegas. I'm going to sleep without hugs and kisses goodnight. I'm missing out on that first thing off the school bus hug, and I'm sleeping on planes. Is it worth it? Last week a major online brand asked if they could buy my blog, so I must be doing something right. I work out of my home, talking about my passion. How many others can say the same? Is it worth spending 18 hours a day behind a laptop or sleeping on planes? We'll see.... I feel with success comes responsibility. It's what you make of it. Many people become an overnight success, not many people handle it well. Chris, you remember the things that are truly important, I think you'll continue to handle your success well.
You, and I, rightly wonder how these powerhouse guys do it with a young family. Again look at Gary's #1 rule - love your family, and we can see he does. There's a severe cost if you don't - see (via my twitter profile) a commentary blogpost I wrote about social media gurus and their failed marriages. Chris truly GETS social media, and I love his Overnight Success series. New to the internet community I salute his tireless work and am totally inspired by his incredible experience and wisdom that he passes on everywhere he goes.
People ask me all the time HOW I'm such a Google Monster. They think there's a trick, because people are selling trickery these days. The fact is that I think up my own content, produce my own blogs, audio and video, post them to my own blog, point people TO my blog and then do it again tomorrow.
If you want to be "me", you have to be willing to put in the hours.. Which most people are not. I'm writing this @ 7:24 am, when most people are on their 39th wink. When I wake up, I'm thinking about my online presence, because it's important to me. I enjoy expressing myself online and I enjoy the conversations people come to me with IRL because they read something I wrote or watched a video I was in.
If you want to be "me, NOW", you have to blog for 2-3 years straight on a topic that people want to read about and search for on Google. If you're not willing to do that, you can forget it. And I'm not even claiming to be a success as far as blogging. I'm successful in other things and the advice is the same.. Devote yourself to learning your craft, experimenting and using that time that you would have been goofing off to improve yourself and make yourself an authority in your field and EVENTUALLY, you'll get your props.
It only SEEMS LIKE overnight to people that didn't know what you've been doing for the past several years.
Great post, awesome video and must say you look better than me after just a couple hours sleep. LOVE that you connect with your kids, despite the time, despite the schedule, despite the life... that is the mark of a true success to me.
Bravo Chris!
When you're passionate about your message - as you are, Chris - I have to think that helps fuel the engines. Still, even the most passionate, talented and successful person must come dangerously close to burnout every now & then. At what point can you know it's okay to move from Overnight Success Builder to Established Successful Guy who gets a little more sleep and has a little more chill time?
Knowing people helps to open doors but in the end you need to be able to perform.
I think this (at least to me) unknown quote is quite suitable:
"There is no elevator to success. You have to take the stairs."
Thanks
http://sethsimonds.com/stop-waiting
To quote you:
"Overnight success doesn't sleep in, overnight success doesn't have a hobby..."
Well, that post combined with yours is a kick in the ass to get up and get moving. Because the things you wanna accomplish in life aren't going to magically take care of themselves. There is no staples easy button. At the end of the day, you determine your success by the actions you take day-in and day-out.
Thanks for the motivation my friend. Travel safe and in the words of Gary V., "Crush It" (or continue to anyway)...
Cheers to you!
My post: http://researchgoddess.wordpress.com/2009/10/07...
I am grateful to people like you and other successful people who demonstrate what it takes to make something important happen "overnight", over day, over weeks, over years....
At 55, I feel blessed to live in a country that allows me to make the most of every 24-hours.
I'm worried about you.
You're schedule is horrendous, you're sleep deprived and, based on the schedule you posted, you can't be spending much time with your wife and kids. At some point it will take a physical toll if it hasn't already. I don't think that's wonderful or great.
We're seeing each other.
And what if I work this hard for another 3 years and then can devote months at a time to my family. Still a bad gig? I say no.
#1 Your hair is wet.
#2 Is this your new "elevator" speech?
The Franchise King
Joel Libava
Working towards my own overnight success, one day at a time. :)
It makes me cringe when I hear friends and relatives who are in high school and college say the same things I said, and take the same things for granted. Guess it's true that youth is wasted on the young.
Exactly! And I wonder if part of that is due to people not recognizing certain work AS work?
You see a guy digging ditches in the hot sun -- yeah, he's working. But the media -- and anyone on the outside looking in -- don't see activities such as (seemingly) staring into space at your laptop as you’re thinking furiously, strategizing and planning and drafting the next blog entry; getting in touch w/ people; coordinating the logistics of an event; etc. as "real" work. Especially if you’re not in a cubicle reporting for duty.
So, those activities don't count. And thus, you're not working. Therefore when you reach a level that is generating media buss, you're an “overnight” success.
Kind of like the best-selling author whose "first" novel gets published and makes it on Oprah -- but no one talks about the 6 other novels in that author's files which were stillborn, but yet taught him his craft.
Thanks for showing us your view of overnight success. I admire your work and message that you send out. One day soon you will get some well deserved rest!
I do understand how things need time and hard work to take shape. I am not an overnight success yet but I am working on it. I go to bed around 1-3am nowadays and get up around 5:45am or so. I work different projects and jobs. From building my business to being a stay-at-home Dad to my 5 and 4-year-old with special needs, I use every waking moment to come up with new ideas for my business, doing medical research for my child and being Dad.
Thanks again Chris for showing us your view of overnight success.
Whatever the dream, it may be rewarding work, it may be even fun, and a person might be full of passion for it, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have a price. That doesn't mean it isn't physically exhausting. And that doesn't mean we all don't think about giving up and needing a break.
And those rare cases of actual overnight (usually celebrity media-fueled) sucess usually crash and burn because since they didn't have to work to get there, they don't know how to work to stay there. (and it's gotta be worse to have had it and lost it than to never even have tried.)
Keep rollin' Chris, because you've got staying power and through it you inspire us all!
Wish I were that coherent on 3 hrs sleep.
The great part about the world of overnight successes is knowing how long the journey is to get there and remembering if you ever do get "there" why you do what you do and not letting up.
Hope to see you soon...
This is an important message... and one people rarely think about.
It goes to success in any arena... not just having "fame",etc..
The other day someone told me they had not ever been very good at networking, and never paid much attention to it. They mentioned they hated attending "happy hours" and other networking events and conferences. They concluded by saying they were in need of work, and now quickly needed to build a network because they realize most jobs come through connections.
What? You cannot build "overnight success" or an "overnight network". These things take dedication of the soul over many years. It is like going to Hollywood. Brad Pitt did not just show up and start getting paid $20 million a movie. He started young and built a career. Key word... BUILT.
You continue to be a person who lets people look under the kimono. Thanks for your inspirational messages!
thom
@juliefogg
(Chris Brogan ---> Joan Ball ---> Me)
My comment (thoughts): http://bit.ly/1sqVYy
It reminds me of the music business. People thought it was so glamorous because all they saw was the crowds, the lights and the dancing hippie chicks. But after they left the venue, they missed the exhaustion, the packing up of a ton of equipment, the venue manager who decides to pay you in beer (after the contract was signed months before) the unloading of the equipment after a long drive dodging drunks on the freeway, the tireless promotion, publicity appearances, rehearsals, etc.
Enzoology is the same. Lots of rewarding stuff - equal amounts of hard work.
Next time we have lunch together, we're not having salads. We are having big, greasy bacon cheeseburgers with fries. We deserve it.
Seeing as it was less than 12 hours ago since I left you guys in Portland, I appreciate the message and empathize with you.
It may be just as well to state that innovation does not take a nap and that we stand to be lapped if we dare to be idle. Each day I wake up, I see that the cards have been shuffled and my best way to win is to play more hands with both calculated and ballsy wagers. Game on!
I’m not (yet) an overnight success financially, but I am an overnight success in terms of being pursued by potential clients. (I’m being a bit facetious with the term success – but it’s all relative) So, I am in that space between the breath; that cosmic void…working very hard writing proposals and offering a lot of free initial consults. And now waiting…and wondering – do I have what it takes to pull this off? I know that I do, but I saw how tired you looked at IMS last week and knew that you were not getting enough sleep or very much time with your family. And I did reflect on the question of whether that kind of sacrifice is required? Apparently it is. I think I’ll take “slightly famous” for now. Please don’t let your self-care take too much of a back seat - and as I'm sure you hear almost daily - “put the oxygen mask on yourself first!”
Chris, - I appreciate your work, your drive, and what you bring to the world and for
letting us see you as a real person, with a family life, lovely values and commitment for what you do.
Thanks for appreciation of the saying, "Careful what you wish for!".
Thanks
Oh, try a magnesium supplement before bed to help with falling asleep.
What are YOU doing to succeed?
I work one full-time job as a documentation specialist, teach one course per quarter online for the UCSD Extension program, do some free work for a company trying to get started, study my craft, and pray. I go to bed late and get up five to six hours later.
What would you tell the people who say that you make it look easy? Walk with me. I cannot do this alone. Work with me as I work. Learn that my strength comes from the God who created me, those I serve, and a passion for doing something I enjoy very well.
Preston
Thank you for telling it how it is. I'm not quite there yet, and I will be. Maybe not as famous and I am fine with that. I will have a very good income from working my passion and helping the people I do. It both scares and excites me knowing even some of the possibilities that are out there. Thanks again Chris.
Very well done - thank you.
Just wondering what your definition of "overnight success" is? One month? One year?
Thanks,
Juliet
Stefan
Success is the result of the 2/3rds of hard work and sacrifice that people don't see like missing your family before they sleep.
You asked: "What would you tell the people who say that you make it look easy? Let’s talk about your overnight success, shall we?"
I'd say I succeeded because of the support of my family to enable me to pursue my dream. Success wasn't easy but it was an enjoyable ride.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timothy_Ferriss
and those I meet who are spending less and working less. Makes you check your definition of success.
Chris loves his work to ... "so arguably" isn't actually working hard either ... but it looks like his passion is wearing him down at the moment.
Thanks for sharing!
Four words: I feel your pain.
As T.E. Lawrence is alleged to have said as he was asked what was the trick and why he wasn't being burned, or why it didn't hurt as he held his hand over the open flame of a candle, Lawrence said "The trick? The trick is not minding!"
Making it look easy is all about not minding the crap, the late nights, the blurred vision, the aches, the pains, the sore fingers from typing, and the bouncing from cab to plane to hotel (or whatever one's own version of this might be). The life style of Aerosmith looks great until you realize they've been doing it for over 30 years and that for MANY of those years, they slept in old vans and cheap, flea-ridden motels and ate crappy food before playing in sweaty dives to 15 drunks and three hookers.
15 years ago I gave a presentation to about 70 people. My pitch was called "Making it look easy!" and it was all about creating exhibits in museums, which is what I do when I'm not building my credibility online.
Let's be honest here: the banner of "an overnight success" is a BS term created
by the main stream media so that they can have something to write about. Instant success, "just add water, makes its own sauce" is a myth—a nice myth—but a myth never the less.
Five years ago I was working on a major gallery overhaul. We'd spent $5 million bucks and I'd asked for 8 weeks to get the show back together, to test all the AV and lighting, and to iron out all the bugs. I was given THREE WEEKS. On the second or third day a younger co-worker was sitting down, mopping her brow. I asked if she was OK. She said "Man! This is HARD work!"
No shit Sherlock. Welcome to my world.
Making things happen IS hard work. It takes COMMITMENT, EFFORT, and GRAFT. That's why the ones with TRUE GRIT are the ones that become the top players: because they stick at it.
Just yesterday I learned I'm now the # 1 contributing "Expert" on Social Media over at Marketing Profs http://bit.ly/15IAvh . Lots of people helped me do this, one of whom is YOU. No way I could have done it alone. So, I'm making progress. It might take me longer to make it, but I'm working on it.
When you sit down at the top table, do me a favour.
Save me a seat.
Keep up the good work!
I turned off the tv and watched some great marketing videos instead of sports (this one was very compelling Facebook's Sheryl Sandberg Keynote at Brandweek http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=55385... ).
I worked on a blog post about the conference, I worked on an upcoming webinar, I worked on a few client projects, I worked on a new community website, I prepared my audio equipment so I can record conversations with Trust Agents like Mr. Chris Brogan for a podcast, I Tweeted and ReTweeted, I Facebooked, I reviewed resumes, I created a new logo, I packed my "I'm not a blogger I just tweet a lot" t-shirt, etc. etc.
If am am lucky to be an overnight success one-tenth as famous as Chris Brogan one day I will have earned it one keystroke at a time. :)
"The heights by great men reached and kept Were not attained by sudden flight, But they, while their companions slept, Were toiling upward in the night."
~ Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
"Overnight success takes 20 years."
Nicholas, when I first saw your blog, I was like "Who is this guy?" It's very clear you put in a LOT of work behind the scenes before taking it live.
Overnight success is a perception experienced by people who have no idea what it took for you to get to where you are right now.
I think success is a journey, not a destination, my personal approach is that as long as I can be on the journey and work from places anywhere in the world, as long as the work is stimulating, exciting and doesn't feel like work then I'm on the right path.
I might work long hours, but I can go Surfing any time I like - that's success (the journey) to me.
Thanks for sharing!
That video was short and very inspiring--Thanks for sharing! Looking forward to hearing you speak at BlogWorld. Hopefully we can connect and chat about being an "overnight success." ;)
All successful people know there is no such thing as "overnight success". Our success comes from the willingness to commit to consistently doing the things average people will not. These are rarely easy or convenient. A price is always paid for that of course, and sometimes not just by us.
I know first hand how hard you are working having walked that path myself. Every success you have is earned and it makes me happy to see your hard work rewarded. The "overnight success" thing made me laugh (ouch) -- it's so not true. Never has been; never will be.
Keep up the great work! (But take care of your health too.)
My own stuff has ground to a halt as I've been sidelined by injuries from a recent accident but I will continue to promote your work and contribution to the industry. It makes me feel less helpless while I'm out of commission and seems a good use of my time. Besides, sometimes helping others is often the best medicine when recovering from tragic circumstances. <smile>
Linda M. Lopeke
The SMARTSTART Coach
But... Remember, it's a marathon not a sprint. Except when it comes to your kids: they're off to their own races in a blink of an eye. You only get one chance to enjoy their wonder years and guide them when they're young and impressionable. Don't miss out completely, or I suspect you will regret it in the long run.
That said, everyone has different balance points that work for them and their families and their goals, so not trying to get all "preachy" here. Just some thoughts from an "old-school" silicon valley Dad and entrepreneur who believes that balance warrants some reflection from time to time.
Thank you for that.
Stefan
I love to train newcomers to the field and even host the sites for several as they grow and learn. I send reporters out to 'competitors' because I like to see others get recognition for their hard work. But I'm honest too--this is not easy. Its not so easy to know what to say on camera or when a DJ is teasing you on air. Its not so easy to get three hours of sleep and then sound like a peppy cheerleader at 9 am on the radio. And you will sacrifice something while building this.
You're right--no hobbies, no downtime, no sleep. Thank you for sharing this!
I have chosen and built a business that keeps me away from home for three months out of the year, but that means that for nine months I am home with my family and part of their lives 24/7. I see them more than the average 9 to 5er sees their family. My wife recently took a 30% pay cut to take a job that gives her almost half the year off.
Sure, we could work longer hours and acquire more stuff -- a bigger house, nicer cars, expensive toys. This is not my view of success. At some point you have to ask yourself: if this is the fruit of the message you believe in with all your heart, maybe it's the wrong message. For a different view of success, try this: http://bit.ly/1on82d
Not saying it's hard and I hate it. Saying, "if you want this, there's work in it."
-Steve
While "overnight success" is a tough and lengthy process, I think that success breeds success - and not just in terms of business success either. For me, having a young family for me is my greatest measure of success and joy, and it drives me to be more successful in what I do for work in order to enrich their lives.
In a business sense, getting some great comments on my blog from people who inspire and drive me, or writing a piece of content that just seems to resonate with a wide range of people is another measure of success.
Focussing on the smaller successes really helps pave the way to that overnight success - it keeps you inspired until you get there.
Great post, thank you!
I responded to the comment you made on Joan Ball's blog (she wasn't buying what you said): http://blog.beliefnet.com/flirtingwithfaith/200...
As I didn't know if you'd be back there to read my question, here it is again! :-)
QUOTE:
Chris wrote: "I'm chasing a much bigger vision of what the world COULD be... something bigger than what's established."
I'd love to hear more about what this vision actually is. I'm just one of the common folk out there, at the mercy of advertisers and marketers, and when I look at your site, Chris, all I see is someone who has hopped on the social media bandwagon and is making a huge success of helping people and businesses make even more money out of people like me!!
How does that translate into a bigger vision for the world? What kind of bigger? Does bigger mean better? And if so, what kind of better? I'd really like to hear - and I'm not being snide or sarcastic, I'm genuinely interested!
END QUOTE
Thanks!! :-)
Lin
(Chris Brogan ---> Joan Ball ---> Me)
My comment (thoughts): http://bit.ly/1sqVYy
For all of us entrepreneurs that are aspiring to fulfill our dreams, this video was unnecessary. Could anyone actually believe that overnight success was possible? Wouldn't it be better rather to celebrate your success with you, than criticize it?
Continued Success Chris, I have learned a lot from you already and I look forward to learning more.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=81UZgJAkRik
The truth in blogging is that share the genuine information to your reader and success is on your hand.
Make sure you find some balance though, or the shine will start to where off :-)
And don't be frustrated with the people who say you've got it easy.
I think I know where you're at, but they probably don't. While most people are asleep nice and cosy in their beds, I bet you continue to burn the midnight oil. Not just to get up for a plane but so that you can honor those that have honored you by responding to their emails etc.
You have have my deep respect for your effort and very real sacrifice.
Appreciate what you do. 11 years and counting... that's amazing. Congrats. Also, you post on how to blog almost everyday was extremely useful. Thanks!
Thanks for being it real.
Now go spend some time with your kids...the world will wait:-)
I enjoyed that video and I feel you on those short nights, but this is what is required when we want to be successful and are dedicated to our craft.
Obviously on your way to #bwe09 and glad I was there and able to hear you speak.
You know, I was a bored Team Leader of 15 federal contract investigators before 02/15/09 when I started my iPhone app review website.
The next 5 months were a blur, just like you describe in this video. I gained an awesome promotion, raise, etc and now I am implementing social media into a mid size corporation with 4 divisions and about 8,000 employees.
But, after starting a new website, I feel the iPhone site is not "professional" enough, only thing holding me back is the paltry advertising $'s I get from my iTunes iPhone podcast $60 monthly.
Either way, #bwe09 helped me to focus on what works and quality, so hopefully, I will take another leap into social media going forward.
thanks
Mike Vallez
@michaelvallez
@crazymikesapps
I've been reading specially your newsletter because I sincerely need to filter some of content I absorve through the various sources, and newsletters are a way to not miss the opportunity to read the articles and still make my own time to do so.
But back to the question, let me give my experience on this matter of "Overnight Success".
This assumption of an overnight success only comes from people that don't know you very well. This is the first time that they get to know you or have you in a serious perspective because you've become relevant for a very special group of people named "Trust Agents" - this term rings any bell. (I've bought your book from Amazon).
For most people you're always be someone that come out from nowhere to stardom. But then again, that's what they think about Google founders, or Facebook founders, or twitter founders, or... whatever.
But reality is that the hard work is always a base for a successful career. You're become this reference because you had this base for several years and personal efforts or sacrifices.
People come to me and say that I'm a lucky guy as I'm a Country Manager of a prosperous marketing company, leader in several countries including my own. But this an achievement made by sweat, long nights and brain damages ;-).
I just nod and say: "Yes, you're right! I'm very lucky to be in such a company... and they're very lucky to have me!"
My family understands and support me. That's my base from where I operate.
Best for you...
I've been reading specially your newsletter because I sincerely need to filter some of content I absorve through the various sources, and newsletters are a way to not miss the opportunity to read the articles and still make my own time to do so.
But back to the question, let me give my experience on this matter of "Overnight Success".
This assumption of an overnight success only comes from people that don't know you very well. This is the first time that they get to know you or have you in a serious perspective because you've become relevant for a very special group of people named "Trust Agents" - this term rings any bell. (I've bought your book from Amazon).
For most people you're always be someone that come out from nowhere to stardom. But then again, that's what they think about Google founders, or Facebook founders, or twitter founders, or... whatever.
But reality is that the hard work is always a base for a successful career. You're become this reference because you had this base for several years and personal efforts or sacrifices.
People come to me and say that I'm a lucky guy as I'm a Country Manager of a prosperous marketing company, leader in several countries including my own. But this an achievement made by sweat, long nights and brain damages ;-).
I just nod and say: "Yes, you're right! I'm very lucky to be in such a company... and they're very lucky to have me!"
My family understands and support me. That's my base from where I operate.
Best for you...
Overnight success?
Well, I am 52 years old and was told by a recruiter in the fall of 2007 that I was not "It" anymore, despite my Stanford engineering degree and 28 years of corporate consultative selling experience.
Smartly, I realized where I was behind and luckily was introduced into the social media world at Blog World 2007 where I met many who have grown to be my mentors. Thanks to them and you, I have been able to "to learn new tricks for an old dog" to help my fellow Boomer overcome fears about how to use the social technologies for professional and business reasons.
Thanks for being a role model.
I will leaving my home in the dark on October 27 to catch a plane and participate with the community at "140 Characters Conference" in Los Angeles and it will be dark when I return too.
The price of learning.
My motivation is simple...to stay in the game.
I appreciate you and your good sense values.
This is how you come over and it is wonderful that you keep
your head in focus and use a good heart to guide you.
Great what you did with "The Loveless Family"
I believe that this question makes people successful.
I hope that people would use it as their success mantra.