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You're not down with lists because people feel left out?
a) anyone complaining about feeling left out has issues that have nothing to do with technology
b) you've never been a part of a list and then proudly talked about it? (Top bloggers, top influentials, etc)?
Come on man.
Can I ask, if you don't dig lists on Twitter, why you have an icon to the right proclaiming your rank on a list (AdAge Power 150)?
Certainly you've been on other "Top" lists as well -- some of which you've likely mentioned or tweeted. Many, many people would probably love to be on those lists, but they're not included for whatever reason (which might make them feel left out, or unsuccessful.)
Why are some lists okay, and some lists aren't? Is it because certain lists are based on quantifiable notions (traffic, income, community votes, something?)
Twitter lists are a no or a yes (there's no ranking within the list), and not something anyone has to look at unless they want to click through and check it out. It's opt-in to notice it, unlike a Follow Friday (unless you filter out the hashtag.)
I think it's Twitter's way of making the web interface more relevant/functional (since people have already been creating list filters on TweetDeck and others for ages now, although those are not public. Then again, the ones on Twitter don't need to be, either.)
Just my two cents.
Want to consider this a little more, see "Twitter Lists: Coolness or Ease of Categorization?" -- http://is.gd/4IyVY
If I don't make ANY lists - I might assume that what I am tweeting isn't that funny, useful, varied, timely, deep, helpful...etc etc etc.. The only reason I would feel bad - would be if I set out to delivery some list of quality or value - but failed...And that would be on me - not other people. It would be VERY useful feedback if I was trying to build a notable presence on twitter.
Or maybe I am not on a list, because I just don't use twitter that way - I don't tweet. How would I take that personally. I have very dear friends irl who have twitter accounts but don't tweet much... I could put a ton of them on a list called lurkers...
Over time, I think people will gain respect and reputation for making and sharing really useful lists as opposed to the public lists driven by strictly personal motivations.
As an individual, I will try not to obsess over the lists I am in or not. It will continue to be about real relationships (as opposed to lists and numbers) for a long time to come ....
If someone honestly stops to sulk over not making a particular list...they need to re-evaluate their priorities in a hurry.
I'm not saying I can't be hurt... but man, I think people really need to do some inner work here. Are your self images that unstable?
I don't mean this as an attack, but there are a few billion people on the net and many more not. These lists are a tiny slice of humanity. I think some perspective is in order.
Note this is coming from a total high school loner..You know that Ally Sheedy character...she was more functional than I was in high school.
Right?
I understand - this ideal of incusiveness - and share it. I think my concern would be more about people from one niche not cross pollinating enough.. but I think most bright people to intentionally cross pollinate.
I would also have a problem if I thought it would make the appealing randomness of twitter disappear. I've met so many wonderful people, that I have not much in common with, but whom I enjoy none the less. Self segregation is a problem, but that's a problem in life.
I guess I land on the side of more tools...because people are people, and the nasty ones will continue to be nasty - The curious, playful, inclusive will continue to act on those values...
I do get what you are saying Chris. I don't expect the world to take care of my feelings at every turn, maybe because I am the only one who has any power over how I actually feel. I hope that makes sense!
Happy to have found your blog! :D
I consider myself a giant one world humanist... but I still find I want to surround myself with a certain kind of person. This type doesn't share skin color, eye color, education level, niche, or very much else. They are curious, playful, active problem solvers, causticly funny, bright, questioning... and a bit world weary and a bit dark all in one...
Do lists make it easier or harder to find that tribe...
I learned living in New York City, that if I took time to be down about parties I was not invited to, I wouldn't enjoy the parties I was free to throw.
I think the idea that 'people are going to feel left out meme' doesn't really take into account that friends and followers already do that... There are millions of people on twitter yes?
We are responsible for our feelings and as Eleanor Roosevelt said, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
If you have to ask to be on a list, you probably shouldn't be on it. If someone asks who else should be on a list, don't name yourself. You just gave yourself away as narcissistic and overly needy. If your ego is that fragile, get off the interwebs.
People who see getting listed as a matter of status are the same people who are counting every follower and then get hurt when someone unfollows them. You can't worry about that.
If you went into a restaurant and asked your server "What do you recommend?" would you accept this as a reasonable answer: "Oh, I recommend everything. I wouldn't want the chef to think that there was a dish of his that I didn't like." Would you continue to read the reviews of a film critic who praised every movie just so that none of the actors, writers, directors, etc. would feel left out?
Now, the above also depends on each individual person. Creating clicks is usually harmful (think High School all over again), but ranking folks, companies, products, etc... is part of how we operate in society today. Good, Bad?
Chris, you do list posts on this site and I'm sure many out there with online applications, ways to promote their blog or tools for listening wished they had been included on them, but weren't. Should you not do posts like this anymore, because some may have felt left out?
I think not.
Twitter lists are pretty much the same, if you point to 20 of this, or my favorite of that, or the best of whatever. It depends on who is making the list and whether we trust them or not. It's there opinion, just like any other list found anywhere else online or off.
Would I like to be on every Top TV Bloggers list on Twitter that gets created? Of course I would, but don't expect to be and will not feel slighted when that turns out to be the case. Just like when some one does a similar list on their blog or site, it's the same to me.
I guess that's just a long way of saying, why is a Twitter list worse than any other list found anywhere else?
When I joined Twitter, I had a reciprocal approach when it came to followers. That was an enormous mistake. Now I am constantly curating my list and keeping it at the 500 range. These lists will even better help.
I have a bigger problem on the other account I manage, @mediabistro. Like Chris, we follow everyone who follows us. That has proved to be fruitless. The "giving good community" argument in automatically following doesn't work for me anymore. Now that lists are here, it's very likely that I'm going to use a tool to unfollow the nearly 50,000 people who follow @mediabistro, and then start over with selective following and good list building, public and private. For those who are power users, we have an obligation to provide the people following with the best experience possible, and that means being able to decide weather someone is worthy to be a follower, or on a list.
As for going private, definitely useful for some things. Especially to avoid 'you don't love me anymore' comments. I do believe though that having a public list of resources is useful for sharing. Likely there aren't going to be 500 libraries you use for example.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Todd
If people are horribly hurt by not being on a particular list, IMO they need to thicken up their skin a bit. The internet (and life) is not all about having ones ego stroked. There could be any number of reasons for not being on a particular list. I'm certainly not going to hunt through my followers lists to see if I'm there - what a narcissistic waste of time that could be better spent tweeting and meeting new people.
One exception: creating lists for awareness. I'm mad passionate about Team Diabetes. I run marathons for them around the world and created a Twitter List of people out there working it for Diabetes.
That's a list I'll share on my page, and with you here, now:
http://www.twitter.com/buzzbishop/team-diabetes/
But people have got to get over themselves and not have such sensitive feelings. I'm not on some Lists I kind of expected to be on and, guess what? They aren't MY lists, they belong to the creator and they can define them however they want.
Plus, just because someone creates a List doesn't mean that they'll actively use it. I've had Lists for over a week and I've created some Lists, deleted others that I found weren't useful, started new ones. I'm continually putting people on & taking others off. They aren't written in stone. I could delete all 20 of my Lists & decide to organize them in a completely different way. You play around with LIsts.
It's a pity if people's self-esteem is tied to their presence or absence on anyone's List.
As for the other, my lists are basically categorizing the people I follow into cooking, sci-fi, soap opera, art, news, travel etc - and I need MORE lists, and to rename others - not sure how that could offend anyone. I will confess to being irritated that I wasn't on a list for a group I belonged to, but then a second later I remembered I haven't actually belonged to it for about six months (and wasn't active for a while before that), so I couldn't be irritated!
I haven't played with any lists, preferring instead to create groups in TweetDeck.
It's a loose loose for everyone in the long run so do your part for the sake of human evolution and make a list!
Its when we begin to categorize people by personality, or favorable traits, or anything that's actually subjective in nature, that we run into "left out" territory.
No one wants to be left out, but really, your opinion of me has absolutely no bearing my opinion of you. In love, life, business... we think what we think, and to anyone with self-awareness, the outside world really doesn't influence our thoughts, only our actions.
Make your lists, (although i know its a pain for my little group, I KNOW its a pain for you) We categorize, its the way our brains work.
I wish I had time to make lists. I started one to capture all the blogging experts and got distracted. Seems like it would be tweetdeck-like, but without a max tweets per hour limit. I tried to use tweetdeck to do something like lists before. But I think I gave it cramps, selecting too many names for one feed.
I set my first list to private because I'd be compiling it for my own use.
It seems being on a lot of lists could become a driving force. Like getting votes for the shortyawards. Everyone pitching you to get your vote or be added to your public list. That is, if I were on the Twitter leaderboard with the name Chris Brogan or Guy Kawasaki.
What you're already experiencing is the unhealthy side. That's tough. Everyone wants to grow their followers.
If we could let go of that, and push out great content or whatever we want to use Twitter for, like connecting...which is a blast, the lists should all work out. I don't care if I get on a list. I can still reach out and touch you. Only virtually. giggle
I don't know how you find out you've been "listed." I do think I'm going to go set up a list for meaningful friends I've found here...like the ones who reached out my first Christmas without my Dad. I find you get close for a week or two, check in off and on the next couple months and poof! Where'd they go? :) I like that value to lists. Maybe one for events: blogworld, blogher, marketingprofs, twitter conferences, et al. Military compadres. Entrepreneurs. Grand Canyon lovers. People with great advice. Whacked out tweeters like @shitmydadsays, to add color to my day.
Okay, I better let you go read someone else and get to work on this. Lists is going to eat up some time.
Could well be that your other lists are private, and for thoughtful reasons, given your thoughts on this. Lists are by nature exclusionary - there's always a #11 or #101 that didn't make it or a party someone can't enter. This feels like blogrolls all over again, in some ways, only more fluid and yes, real-time.
As usual, comments in your community of readers adds useful perspective. I tend to gravitate towards the position of @AdrielHampton & @nwjerseyliz: this is one more tool. Lists are extremely helpful for both power users who need a way to sort streams and newbies who are trying to figure out who to follow and why.
Thoughtfully curated lists by influential thinkers who really know a subject or market are going to be extremely useful to the public, along with niche marketers, advertisers or beat journalists. Once they're integrated into third-party clients like Tweetdeck. Seemic, Tweetie, Echofon and UberTwitter, I suspect that utility will skyrocket.
You make lists here on and off again; for good or ill, they're some of the biggest traffic drivers on the Web. We all seem to gravitate towards them, just like the unfortunate horse race that politics has become in many election seasons.
I think you're spot on to highlight a need for care in building lists of people and lists of companies, brands, products or services, especially when it comes to building relationships on a more human-centric Web.
You are wrong on one count, however: lists are NOT static. We can add, subtract and amend as we like. I already see list-begging going on, just like RT begs and link begs before that. Since Twitter is giving this ability to its community - unlike, say, the suggested users list - we can adjust and be fluid in curating them as new voices deserve ears.
Happy Halloween, big guy!
I probably will add a list of Just Friends. And that too will be private for the very reason you mention...
You'll be on a list, though I read you daily already in my emails, so you're easy to find. :)
Folders are great for my reader. Then I can put each RSS feed into its proper category, but Twitter is social and networking. The human factor changes everything.
If everyone on Twitter was a geek it would work. We do love our lists and folders.
Most of us can't find anything on a computer unless it's in a folder or file. Lets face it--You can't grep Twitter.
It's turning Twitter into high school!
Did I mention "hm"?
While lists certainly CAN be exclusionary, they can also be very helpful. If there are people with whom I've interacted and whose input I've benefited from, then I see no real harm in naming them on a list. The reason that I was phumphering in my comment above was that the thought of the lists being hurtful to anyone hadn't even occurred to me.
When I first started using Twitter and started following someone whose words I found helpful, or funny, or simply enjoyed, I would often check to see who THEY were following, so that I might find others whose input I enjoyed. I see no real difference here, other than the lists might be easier to follow.
So, unless people are making lists with titles that go something like "Here's The List of People Who I Think Are Cool & If You're Not, I Don't", I don't see it as harmful (and I like to think I'm pretty considerate of people's feelings).
Thanks for your perspective, Chris.
There is value in a private list for personal browsing, but I think the list idea is a great way for someof us with more experience to help the Twitter newbies get started. I get asked several times a week about who should be followed in a particular niche. I can put together a list for that niche and it makes it easy for someone to get started.
I think the benefits outweigh the downside, but then again, I'm also the type of person who doesn't get caught up in who (or how many) are following me.
Public lists are a start, they will last until everyone figures out who goes where. Then will come listorious.com. It is here already and it is exploding. I believe that is where public lists will end, or something similar.
Private lists are useful for the owner. They will last longer. One curious thing I noticed which has huge potential is that you can add people you do not follow to private lists. Whoa...
I agree with what you say. It stinks to be left out.
What I really like about Lists (already) is that they *are* (at least when done with some editorial judgment) a presentation of who a user feels are the "must reads." There have been many times when I've said to myself, "I think Morton Frobischer is great. I'm sure that anyone he follows would be someone I'd enjoy following"....only to find that Morton follows 1000 people. Now, I could embark on the tedious task of going through the pages of people he follows, attempting to divine who among them are his favorites (and for what reason)...but I've got better ways to spend a day. Twitter Lists holds the promise of leading me to exactly the names I wanted...in minutes.
Returning to Follow Friday...if Twitter Lists could replace that already-tired tradition, I'd be thrilled. I've lost track of how many times I've clicked on a user name link to see if that person might interest me, only to find that his/her stream is filled with nothing but "thank yous" for all of the FF recommendations. I can't learn anything about that person without going back at least a day.
What I really like about Lists (already) is because they *are* (at least when done with some editorial judgment) a presentation of who a user feels are the "must reads." There have been many times when I've said to myself, "I think Morton Frobischer is great. I'm sure that anyone he follows would be someone I'd enjoy following"....only to find that Morton follows 1000 people. Now, I could embark on the tedious task of going through the pages of people he follows, attempting to divine who among them are his favorites (and for what reason)...but I've got better ways to spend a day. Twitter Lists holds the promise of leading me to exactly the names I wanted...in minutes.
Returning to Follow Friday...if Twitter Lists could replace that already-tired tradition, I'd be thrilled. I've lost track of how many times I've clicked on a user name link to see if that person might interest me, only to find that his/her stream is filled with nothing but "thank yous" for all of the FF recommendations. I can't learn anything about that person without going back at least a day.
the purpose for creating my public lists is to group people together in a way that is most helpful for others to find people of a certain grouping. yes i will leave people out and maybe piss them off in the process but i dont feel i need to apologize for leaving them out.
For me, though, the bigger issue with the current rollout of Twitter lists is that it just doesn't mesh with how I've found I use Twitter: I like to follow conversations or topics and not just groups of people. I use the search function of Tweetdeck, for example, to set up a column on a word, words, or hashtag rather than grouping people who may, or may not, be talking about the topic I'm interested in. Most importantly, this way I get to hear new voices all the time. And to me, that's one of the best things about Twitter....
I look forward to seeing where this leads
Not sure how well the public lists will work for people, especially if someone was to leave out a client or a friend. People are very touchy.
I sent out a tweet this morning in fact to the possible social media trend toward exclusivity (e.g., the recent 'birth' of both Twitter Lists as well as the have's and have-not's for Google Wave invites.)
Here's the Tweet:
@JoanneMaly: Hoping soc med doesn't bec. new gotta-B-in-this-exclusive-clique-type-of-thing (e.g. GgleWve invites/TwttrLsts)
But there will always be lists of some sort - have you not, yourself, been listed in a kabillion blog posts about the Top N Bloggers or such, where N is a terribly terribly small select group? - whether or not Twitter enables it. List-making is human nature, and many of us have long had a little notepad or even a spreadsheet in action.
Where I have to strongly disagree with you is in your statement that lists are static.
Au contraire, lists are capable of constant evolution to reflect the changing realities of Twitter. Not merely in the adding and subtracting of users, but in renaming and resorting, and shifting between public and private. And if Twitter adds the ability to merge and/or subdivide lists (as I hope it will do), down the road, there's a whole other world of list evolution waiting to happen! Add to that, the migration of Twitter lists to RSS to endless mashups and aggregations - not to begin to speculate on the possibilities once the API is wrestled into submission by the apps-makers!
Follow-and-list, follow-but-don't-list, don't-follow-but-do-list, don't follow-and-don't-list are other variations that make it much more complex. And we're not one-dimensional people, any of us - some one person could fit just as neatly into half a dozen lists, but is unlikely to be listed in them all, just for practical reasons!
... but yes, some people will feel left out.
Inevitably.
So I do think that for someone with your high profile - a public figure, really - it's probably kinder that you've decided to opt for private lists.
For the rest of us, however, I have to wonder how much people really care if they "make" our lists or not.
That said, two-thirds of my lists are private,and I value those individuals as much if not more. Different lists, different roles. And if anyone does feel slightly by not appearing on my public lists, I hope that they will assume - quite likely correctly - that they do appear on a private list.
Sorry for the long comment here - probably should have just written a blog post, eh? :)
Doug
If it weren't for the public/private option, I probably wouldn't like the lists, either. With it? I think they're fine.
However, if there are some great ways to use lists. I personally made a list of all the twitterkids I taught so I can reference people to one list. I saw someone else make a list of people they have met in real life.
So although I don't think that lists are a terrible invention I do see how they can be exclusionary.
Twitter lists reveal the following:
* what you value / your interests
* how you perceive / classify your friends / connections
* how you are perceived / classified (others' lists you are mentioned on) - influence!
* how many folks FOLLOW your lists (this shows your lists are valued) - more influence!
* how many folks mention / refer to your lists - even more influence!
All in all, this list feature, shows true influencial power. This will distinguish everyone. Lists are like endorsements. I call it the new "LIST ECONOMY". Influence just took a hard right turn. You still on the bus? :)
Now, go make your lists! We're looking to learn from you.
Cheers,
@SusanBeebe
PS. Looking forward to seeing you at SM2day Conference in Rochester on Nov 11 (I am a panelist at that conference).
@SMC_Rochester - Co-Founder
Twitter lists will definitely be used in "mean" ways. Lots of things can be used to exclude. We live with that every day. I will be sad to see people excluded. However, there has to be a way to use Twitter itself (and not necessarily a 3rd party app) to enable us to sort and communicate with the people we really want or need to at any given time or, for businesses to keep an eye on what the employees or clients are saying. So, lists may help with reputation management too.
We all have the choice to make our lists private. That won't make anyone feel excluded at all.
Thanks so much for articulating this. Lists are going to be a game-changer and maybe not in a community-building way.
I have a simple fix that could help. Leave the lists but eliminate the "listed" metric so that people don't focus on how many lists a given tweeter is on. I like the idea of getting recommendations from you but don't really need to know how many people have included you in a list.
What was surprising about the list rollout was how quickly everyone became The Academy and/or Best Actor. I got a queasy feeling seeing how quickly a community based on creating relationships and sharing value quickly starting judging and rating each other and creating "A-listers" and "Top" and "Best" lists. And I got equally queasy with all the bragging ("Gosh, just noticed that I'm already on a gazillion lists!)
I created a few lists because it is helpful to be able to jump to just Gov 2.0 feeds or just wine tweeters if that is what I am interested in in that moment and the interface is better than tweetdeck groups. And I am going to continue creating a very thorough list of everyone I follow who lives in NYC (mainly to find the good tweetups!). But I've already made two lists private because I just didn't feel comfortable to say who I thought was "most interesting", and I think I may take most of the others private as well.
It will be very interesting to see how this plays out.
It could be used as a suggestions segments - new people to follow, sort of like #followfriday, if you please. They could also be used like tag - people I know who blog, for example, or people who podcast. It's exclusive, yes, but it's pragmatic in its exclusion - if you feel left out looking at a podcaster's list, but you don't podcast, how relevant is this to YOU the viewer, after all?
I agree with you, there are a lot of invisible uses for this. But the cool/uncool factor will have to wear off before this begins to happen.
"I learned living in New York City, that if I took time to be down about parties I was not invited to, I wouldn't enjoy the parties I was free to throw." would go on my fave T-shirt if it weren't so long.
I've spent a day with the lists, made a few, and my bone of contention is, to be done to my satisfaction, they require a large time commitment. There WILL be someone left out, someone who should be there. That's just how it is. I could make a great list about hockey today, some hockey guru could join tomorrow and be off my radar, rendering my list incomplete, although I may not know it.
However, that does not make them useless or exclusionary in my eyes. In fact, the sheer volume of them makes them something of an equalizer. Now, instead of a Nielsen list once a year or a "50 Most Whatever Whatever" people every 5 month, or gawd help me, a "Hot Blogger" anything, we have a constant influx of new lists based on people's subjective criteria. Which, frankly, is what all lists have always been based on anyway, Nielsen can say what they want about their metrics. Whatev. People make lists. And, as my favorite statistics prof always said, "Numbers say what you want them to."
But if I were you, would my lists be public? He**s no. Just more blanks to be shot, when you're not trying to be a target. Not a good use of time.
You're on my Cool Dad list, tho.:)
I think to, in general its a good idea when explaining things to yourself - As in why am I not on that list? To go for the least painful explanation. Chances are it has zero to do with you. I think much of the pain we experience is pain that comes from explaining things to ourselves in the most personally painful ways, when more often than not the most likely story has nothing to do with you or what you have to offer. Also - once you become yourself, trully, openly - you are guaranteed to find out that you are not everyone's cup a tea. And you will also find your true blue friends. Can't do that without the full monty.
That said if there's any doubt, try to always provide signal and failing that, laughs...preferrably - both!
But at some point you have to stand for something, and can't expect to please everyone. Stepping on toes is a big priority if you want to be influential. Just a choice whether you want to influence the world, or just those that agree with your view.
You had this really awesome idea that would help new users - Twitter Packs. I railed and ranted and posted against it. It was exclusionary and contrary to the open and non-elite nature of Twitter!! Oh, and I mistakenly thought it was sexist...(word choice, I admitted I was wrong.) This was back in 2007, right?
I'm glad you and I are on the same page now. At least with your wiki idea anyone could edit a list/pack... now? Now we've got a whole new game for people to play thanks to Twitter.
I will never really understand why people think that it's okay to make other people feel crappy and left out simply because they don't care whether or not someone leaves them out.
The justification I keep hearing for why it's okay to make people feel that way? That they shouldn't.
Let's start acknowledging the reality versus the ideals. If everyone you know was invited to a party but you weren't - it feels like crap. You aren't going to go to the host and say "hey... um, you left me off the invite list... was that a mistake or not?" unless you have a cast-iron self image or reason to believe the former.
Public lists are not the same as private filtering views.
Honestly? I was making some lists - but I've just realized that I'm probably going to post about this tomorrow as I delete them all.
Thanks for stepping up to bat Chris. And thanks for making me realize that yeah, I really AM against them.
Someone else (whom I won't name b/c it was a DM) just mentioned to me the fact that subjectivity plays a huge part in lists that cause issues.
Let's say I was making a list of "Social Media Thought Leaders" but (strictly hypothetically) I couldn't stand you Chris, or I always disagreed with your viewpoints. Am I likely to put you on the list because I know that you are, in fact, one of those leaders despite the fact that I don't want to follow or endorse you?
Lists are going to prove to be a bigger negative than a positive in the long run.
There are "shoulds" -- people *should* use lists to enlighten other users, they *should* not be offended or hurt if they are left off of a list... and there are realities -- people will use lists to manipulate, game the system, increase their perceived influence, troll, malign others and people will be offended and hurt if they feel left out by someone whom they care for or respect.
I'm not going to take one individual's assessment of another as my sole input. We don't do that in life, why would we do that in this case?
There will always be people who will use the systems we create to add static - We need to get smart about filtering it. Killing features that can be used wisely or stupidly, or aggressively is not the way.
You can't socially engineer shitty behavior off the internet. It's an ideal, but as a rule, it ends up restricting the freedom of the well behaved and thoughtful to control the nasty and the immature.
The nasty and the immature will always find a way to plop a turd in the punch bowl. It's a human problem not a technical one.
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Keep the posts coming! Love your insights!
-Melodie
@MyMelodie
For example, I'm working on a list of Butler University alumni and students on Twitter. The only people who feel excluded will be those who regret not attending Butler.
But hurt feelings? People need to grow up and remember that they are in fact just lists.
You're cool dude. Thanks for having a heart buddy, but end of they are just lists...
Best,
A
However, they can be incredibly useful. At Edelman for example we have several lists where we can follow each other - there is a list of almost everyone in the UK, there is a list of just the UK digital, and there is a wider list of many people worldwide.
It is this sort of list where the most benefit can be drawn, rather than a "top ten marketing specialists" type of list which is essentially a small cog in a wider popularity contest and promotes exclusivity.
As far as the exclusionary thing... well, yeah, sure. Just like who I'm following is out there. Lists themselves won't be the issue ... until I end up on someone's "nerdy git" list :-)
I've also seen where some folks are on lists in the triple (or even quadruple) digits while I may only be listed in the single digit or lower double digits. Gee, that doesn't make me feel very special or loved.
The one other thing about lists is the "follow this list" feature. I may or may not want to follow the list and the person creating the list may or may not want others to know that some of their followers have been categorized. It can get sticky.
There are some benefits. I can follow a thread of people with different interests and different backgrounds. All that said, the web version of Twitter is still pretty clunky and Tweetdeck has provided a grouping feature forever.
I'm actually surprised that you would choose not to use the feature because of this. Is there another reason? IMO if people want to be on a list, they should focus more on building stronger connections.
BTW, your newsletter is awesome and easily in my Top 5 right now! :)
I completely agree with Chris. I'm don't care to make lists, nor care if I'm on them.
Lists feel like one of those things people need to feel important. Whether making a list people talk about, or being on a list that people covet. Does either really mean you're more important? more cool? Hip?
Not really, not to me.
I'll continue to ignore lists, and those who make them, or celebrate their being on them.
I think a better idea than lists, would have been netflix style suggestions. based on tweets, common followers, followees, etc. Much less elitist and exclusionary, and based on an algorithm.
Just another twitter option to tinker with, and will bring forth a hundred new twitter third party sites.
I hope that if she comes to you, feeling hurt, you will have something to say to her that will strengthen her self love and self esteem in the face of that inevitability... (Of course I don't mean to imply that your kid won't be the most awesome and most friended child in the history of the world..Because as YOU certainly know best, she is awesome whether she is on those other kids friends lists or not. )
Its more important to her development that she continues to pursue what ever interests her, rather than what she thinks will get her more FB friends...right? I mean as all young nerds will tell you middle school....well shiver....
As adults we can plan all kinds of activities that will hopefully lessen the crucible that is middle school, make it more inclusive, teach our children to teach other people's children with compassion and respect... We don't seem any where near reaching critical mass on this project though...
They're simply the decision of a person, and a personal choice. Some folks will like them, some not, but I agree with much of the commentary here that in the grand scheme of things, being on a Twitter list (or not) shouldn't be something to get worked up about.
It's that you know when you're not on them.
This is a Twitter bug, and a real problem. Lists should be known only to the person making them. Doing otherwise causes more problems than it solves.
The value in a list is to be able to organize. That's pretty much why lists were invented. They've been bastardized by the media who wants you to believe there are seven, and only seven, ways to fight fat, but lists are a system of organization. Sharing is an extra.
But on your (Scoble's?) premise - sure, send your list to friends who you think could use that information.
But people on the lists should never have to know they're on a list. I should never get a ping or have a page on my site that says "You're on pwb's Cool People list." There's not much value to that but simple vanity.
Perhaps it's people who might consider that lists don't mean anything other than how someone organizes. It has nothing to do with how popular someone is (which should be the least of their concern anyway).
Ergo, it's not the lists that will make people feel left out, it would only be the emphasis of importance of being on lists by people like yourself (thank goodness you don't do that). Or, more specifically and accurately, only people can make themselves feel left out.
Besides, in some ways, Tweetdeck (which I used briefly and then abandoned) was a tool that did the same thing, with the only difference being that those lists did exclude people and those excluded never knew it and didn't have the opportunity to feel left out.
Is that better despite being the opposite of transparent? I don't really think so.
All my best,
Rich
On the other hand, I've noticed a recent uptick in the number of followers I've attracted lately. A lot of them are fellow Mainers, and I suspect my profile has shown up on a bunch of Maine-oriented lists, and that led them to me. I found some new people to follow because they were on a "Maine Digital Creatives" list. I think a lot of people overlook the ability for lists to aid in friend discovery, and that has to be a good thing, right?
Maybe opinionated lists are better if private, but soon some will leak and in the end, everyone loves a good debate!
Twitter has a way now to organize Authority on the internet based on something other than pagerank... think about it: people will get authority on a subject based not on relevant/authoritative links to their sites, but by their presence on lists described by tags/keywords.
I hope this doesn't seem spammy, but I elaborate here, on how Twitter Lists can kill Google http://www.digitalmediaminute.com/article/4944/...
I think that one of the cool potential uses of Lists by small businesses surrounds the online instantiation of their recommendations of other people and businesses in their community. As long as it's kept authentic, it could be very powerful indeed.
Ultimately we'll need to find a balancing act between unfiltered, totally open flow of information that is all inclusive vs. the filtered views, exclusion, and inferred authority that Twitter Lists will provide.
I certainly agree that it can exclude many users and become another popularity contest (how many lists are you on?). Lists don't necessarily translate to influence, just as followers do not.
As I said on Twitter.... Twitter lists = noisy, uberfilter, narcissistic^2, streamlined, repetitive, notable...all in one. (IMHO)
I do have a nagging feeling that it, too, will yet be another metric that will be gamed on Twitter. Though, not easily, it can still be gamed. Look at @mashable v. @barackobama to see what I mean.
Lists are merely another form of engagement, recommendation, respect and validation. Let's not inflate the impact of this too much. If you're a good person, you'll likely land on many people's lists. If you suck, you won't land on many people's lists.
~Joe
I started a list called "awesomesauce". I like that word. I started adding people I really liked to it. Probably most people that post here are on that list. But then I got to thinking "hmmm, person A is on this list, but their friend person B isn't because I just don't like person B, so is person A going to get all pissed off?".
So I just made the damn list private.
I can't wait until twitter list privacy breaks. Won't that be a fun day.
Here though (on Twitter), I think it kinda sucks that lists are public for all to see because it excludes people and well, it does suck to feel left out. Like you, I'll use private lists this way no one feels left out. Then again, I don't have thousands upon thousands of followers so it's a little easier for me to filter through content...
This I do know to be true: As my followers grew from 6 to 60 to 600 to over 6000, I became more aware of the possibilities for mistakes, whether textual or factual, to reflect poorly upon my professional or personal life. Living so transparently in the public eye holds that possibility for all now.Do the labels of others now mean that we all have to conform to those boundaries? I'm not so sure.Increasingly, we define ourselves by what we talk about, who we connect to and what we consume. Like, say, CJR.
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