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What do you do about those who never share?
Do you continue to share with those who don't get it and never give anything back?
Another great post, Chris. I missed meeting you at Gnomedex, and I'm sorry now that I did. But I'll be at Blogworld and maybe we'll run into one another for 5 seconds amidst the huge crowds.
@Luke - For those who "never share," I personally consider how I was connected with those folks in the first place. My own approach to networking and connections is to first determine how people add value to my network or are they just taking-up bandwidth. If I find they take more bandwidth over time than engaging in a "sharing" business relationship, it's time to refocus my efforts elsewhere.
I think Chris makes an excellent point regarding the ease of sharing today: we share because it's easy. While it goes against our grown-up nature to give openly rather than hold things closely, sharing is ultimately a win-win. It will eventually net you the desired results and the ability to ASK others to help you share good information. I think a great deal of strength rests in the mettle of the network you choose to build and how you develop a synergy with them.
I spend my days sharing on applications like StumbleUpon, Twitter, FriendFeed and Delicious. It's been an incredible source of quality information flowing TO me and has yet to bite me in the behind :)
@redheadwriting
There's a time and a place for confidentiality in business - especially with projects in development. However, knowing when to share and with whom to share is key. Before sharing with the world, one must know who they can trust and how much to share.
I do agree that sharing is a two-way street. My company's best partnerships are those where we share opportunities and ideas amongst ourselves evenly - sometimes we come to the table, sometimes our partners do. It works well.
Finally, strategic sharing means finding that balance between giving away the world and holding back everything. It's a bit different for everyone, but worth paying attention to.
Thanks for sharing!
1. Sharing goes hand-in-hand with an abundance mentality. I don't need to hoard anything, because there's more than enough to go around. This is a great way to have more abundance (physical, psychological, etc.) in life.
2. I've been playing with the idea that social media, when it's used right, takes companies back to the honorable profession of being *merchants*. The good face-to-face merchant listens closely to what you need, then meets you at that point of need. The guy who owns my local hardware store knows me on sight, and he's not afraid to send me to Lowe's if I ask for something he doesn't stock. He'd rather share some business with Lowe's today so that he can earn my loyalty for years to come.
All of this is *relational*, not *transactional* - which is the default mode of thinking for savvy users of the social media.
Also, businesses have been building partnerships for a long time without the advent of teh interwebz. When we forget our own history we are doomed to repeat it.
All we have now is new tools to better do things we have done before.
Seriously though, great post. I like your take on the issue and I think I'll be riffing on it in a post of my own soon.
I developed my appreciation for sharing by spending three years in a corporate IT department and wondering why I so often had to duplicate the efforts of others or wait around for new work to find me. Today I'm doing my best to make sure our lessons learned are captured online and highly visible for those who come after us.
The bottom line is that in this new web-based economy, the best sharers will stand to reap the largest rewards since they will become valuable contacts for others who are also very good at sharing. Tight networks of great sharers will form around certain types of information and extend outward to looser networks that eventually connect to other tight networks.
Yes, strategic sharing and strategic philanthropy definitely predate the internet, but now the currency being shared is access to my network and sharable content in addition to money and other kinds of political clout that have always been valued.
Since time and attention are increasingly valuable, why should I spend my time searching and vetting information if someone I trust in my network has already done the heavy lifting? This shared information then has the potential to provide raw materials to make new content and add more value, thus providing me with something to share in kind... and the cycle continues.
This is really a nice post. I hope I am making sense here - it's all very abstract. It makes me want to draw a picture and I'm no artist. :)
It's funny how this is lost (or made less important) in the grown up world of business. We need to remember what really matters.
I love the fact that social media tools are making sharing and collaboration more readily available to all businesses. It's also exciting to see the early adopter large companies get their feet wet (i.e. all the companies using Twitter).
I think the idea of sharing (or lack of sharing) is why some of the large companies out there have been left in the dust by new start ups (twitter, rtm, facebook, etc ...) The new companies thrive and understand sharing. It's exciting to see how everything is unfolding/changing ...
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Just one follow-up question: If you are so fond of sharing, would you share with people who may have a lot of insight but who don't have any showcase examples yet? I mean, there's a start for everything, and only limiting the sharing to fellow rock stars is not broadening the concept very much IMHO.
Chris, I love the reminder that there's "plenty to go around." With my writing and art, it was my nature to be protective of content. But I'm learning that sharing my work helps spread the word; and unless I limit myself, there's definitely more where that came from!
You know, your shares have been incredibly helpful to me as I've been exploring social media. I should have said thanks a lot earlier.
Thanks.
Share Share Share Share Share!!
Why?
Because you SHARE. You didn't hestitate to send people to my blog because of some post I wrote that inspired you. You didn't hestitate to encourage people to follow me on Twitter.
You didn't hestiate to share your time with me when I first met you at SOBCon08. You made me feel like I was the most important person in the room when we were talking. Now, that's priceless. I never forgot it.
So, to answer your question, yes, I most definitely share. I believe in the value of sharing information via my blog or private email whenever I think someone will benefit from something - whether it's a book I read or a speaking event or whatever.
Thanks for being all you are - it's no small wonder you're so in demand that you can't possibly fulfill all the invitations that come your way. What goes around comes around. That's why you're so in demand, my friend.
Keep the light burning bright and you'll go places you never even imagined would be possible. Trust me. I've been there and so will you.
Aside from that here's my dilemna - big fish in a small pond, that's me. No doubt your insights and others could be beneficial to folks in my niche industry, but I'll be damned if I'm going to show my hand to my #1 competitor. I am all for the greater good of the whole, but I just can't give away the recipe to the secret sauce and right now, you and a few others are a key ingredient to my simmering sauce.
Yesterday ChangeThis released my manifesto elaborating on this idea called Social Capital Value Add, which is an approach to value based management that is centred on the kind of sharing that you are talking about.
Details are here: http://socialcapitalvalueadd.com/2008/09/10/how...
The idea behind ChangeThis is that you share good ideas with folks who trust you. I hope that you like this one.
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I am new to this site but I just love your knowledge, wisdom, and encouragement. I have been blogging for a year now and I have found that sharing information is beneficial to those receiving as well as giving. It is good Kharma and it does come back to you by the bucket loads. I just love this blog! Keep sharing Chris!
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Good article.
I would like to share the idea... what could you tell me?..
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