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Kind of like the difference between the Bush administration and the Obama administration, come to think of it.
We need to hear opinions and facts, just like the best blogs are. Some are opinion pieces, like this one (and I agree with it) while others can be more factual, how tos (your lists for example).
And even when we're reading facts, it helps to know the opinions of those writing them since, as my old history advisor once told me "What you see depends on where you stand."
But value varies. Someone simply writing "you suck" as an anonymous comment has little value - it's not more than a reminder to keep one's ego in check, if anything.
All that aside, just because you have an opinion on something, doesn't necessarily mean you have all the relevant facts or even that you know what you are talking about. An example in point is the seemingly endless discussion of newspapers going digital. There are many on the Web who have a myopic view of newspapers (Seth Godin, http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2009/01...) and then there are those who have more facts than the average blogger wants to know. (Alan D. Mutter, http://newsosaur.blogspot.com/) On this account, I trust Alan's opinions far more than I do Seth's.
Before trusting an opinion, first look to make sure the person who has it is an authority on that which he/she speaks. If not, exchanging opinions is simply a parlor game.
I think this point should give us significant motivation to put most of our time into carefully seeking and vetting that trusted network. Particularly as our life becomes more crowded with information and decisions.
To Peter's comment above, I think opinions are okay to lead with; however, if challenged we have to be courageous enough to research, verify, and concede when the facts are as we expected. Statistics and real-world behavior a notorious for the unexpected, unintuitive result.
Chris, you make the cut! Thanks again for another great thought/opinion.
For instance, I really liked Rufus' comment above. Don't necessarily agree with him, on all points but I DO agree that having facts incorporated into your argument really helps me weigh your credibility.
One more thought then I'll shut up. With a billion opinions out there on any given topic, I wonder if it makes finding 'Facts' more difficult or undercuts their weight since so many people attempt to discredit the source.... My .02
@ryancmiller
And don't be concerned with how others define you. When they define you, they are limiting themselves, so that is their problem. Whenever you interact with people, don't be there primarily as a function or a role, but as a field of conscious Presence.--Eckart Tolle
That said, I don't have time to be an expert on everything. I do have time to compile a list of trusted sources on different topics that I can go to if I have no time to create my own informed opinion.
It's actually hard to think of anything in our society not based more heavily on opinion than fact. You don't have to go any further than comparing Fox News to CNN and then to the BBC to see the truth of that.
That's my opinion, anyway...
It seems knowing how to quickly sort through opinions is a necessary skill these days!
One opinion from a "famous" icon may be worth 1,000 similar opinions from the common folk.
In truth, my opinion is the only one that counts. More people should consider that notion. Bandwagon-jumping has become a spectator sport. That's unfortunate. This is America. We are all created equal.
~jon
You are right on! We are barraged with information every day and every day - in my world anyway - I feel the pressure to decide things quickly. I cannot possibly read all the news out there, nor do I want too. And frankly, some things that are important to be aware of - like financial and economic information - are not my core strengths. Much of that information flies right over my head. For that reason, I have learned to trust people who have a solid understanding of such things. They help me understand what's important/what's not. Along the way, I learn.
How do I decide who's opinion matters to me? It's about building a relationship and learning to trust people. I look for integrity in word and deed, transparency in communication, honesty...that sort of thing. When people demonstrate to me that they are not only real, but have the background and experience to back up what they say. I pay attention! On the flip side, I can tell when someone is just blowing smoke to feed their own ego's. Those people I ignore.
My SO and I were discussing something similar last night. I asked him what the difference was between his reaction to a nearby stranger being rude to him and some anonymous person on World of Warcraft telling him he 'sucked at life'. My SO said that he could discount the opinion of "some teenager who has never met me" but found it harder to ignore someone who was right in front of him. In a sense, anonymous comments can be a bit easier to ignore because the person leaving them doesn't have the guts to put their name on their opinion. Still might sting, but not nearly as much as someone who tells you something negative, and has the guts to claim their opinion.
I think even the most objective blogs have a bit of opinionated bias to them. That's just how people work. Could it be that someone reacting so strongly to one's opinion (especially negatively) is because it causes them to maybe reexamine their viewpoints?
In today's digital age too many marketing types are zipping right into the field of insanity and failing to realize how different media elements connect. In some cases (like Cash4Gold), a commercial that could be rated by viewer opinion is instead being rated by consumer opinion and reviews off Google.
As more "sudden death" media channels begin to cross over, it will be really interesting to see how communication pros evolve or die.
hmmm how many times do i have to tell you chris when i want your opinion i will give it too you - so remember what i didn't say too :-)
you're forgiven
anyway hope to see you one of these days
(I do wish that less people believed hogwash presented as "fact." Opinion is not the problem in the U.S.)
But... I just got to read this post and almost everyone sounds like a follower. Did I really only count two people who disagreed - and then only slightly? What's the phrase? Oh yeah, "like sheep to the slaughter".
Did anyone read Peter's original post? He advocates citing facts and using common sense rather than just throwing something out there for the sake of filling space on a blog. He didn't feel knowledgeable enough to write about commercials, so he didn't do it. Sounds like good judgment to me.
Again, not trying to make anyone mad, but come on guys. Don't drink too much of the Kool-Aid.
However, simply going along with other's opinions based on who they are or what they do is no good. The day we stop reasoning and thinking for ourselves is the day we stop living. We all have different situations and life experiences that make up our opinions and why we think the way we do, and each one is relevant... no matter how far-fetched it may seem.
This is why so many blogs only report what happened with blockquotes from the original post. It's kind of like the television news. They want credit for bringing the information to the people, but they want to seem "neutral" to the topic.
This is how we miss out on A LOT of good discussions.