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One other thought is that these tools help to build relationships so when we eventually meet in real life, the relationship has already moved forward.
Related: I find that blogs, podcasts, twitter keep me feeling more connected to people I only see twice a year, such that I feel like we're always hanging out.
Probably a dozen or more reasons that people can think of.
Bottom line?
I'd say, make this a part of your "outside" conversation.
It is "okay" to talk to others, outside of this environment, about your passion and interest.
Sure. They're going to look at you with that look. You know the one "What are you talking about?" or "I'm afraid of the Internet".
Get over it, and keep on talking, make them "get it".
Yesterday, I drove up to scope out a potential location for the PodCampMidWest after-event party.
I could tell that the people I were speaking with used the Internet for e-mail, and occasional browsing, but not much more.
I turned a few "facts" into language which they could understand.
I asked them if they had a company website. Yes.
I said, "Imagine if 300 people were here. 300 people who write about everything that they do, as they are doing it, and post it all online, with links to related sites."
Imagine 300 people doing the PR work for your business, because you allowed them to come into your place and mingle and have a good time.
I saw the light-bulb go off in his head.
He "got it".
Good idea you presented -- bringing your contacts/clients/friends together to discuss social meda. Host your own event if you have to; local libraries usually have a meeting room available rent-free. You don't have to be an "expert" -- just get the conversation started.
Find out if there is already a Social Media Club (http://www.socialmediaclub.com) in your city. If not, start one! That's what I did, and I can't begin to tell you how many valuable connections I've made and how much I've learned. I'm not an expert; I'm the facilitator. Once you get started, the experts will find you. And most of them are very willing to share their knowledge.
Reaching out is about changing attitudes, crossing cultures, just because we speak the same language does not necessarily imply we will understand each other, based on social conditioning, values, morals, ambitions...
it is bridging this that is reaching out I feel, that can be done on the telephone or myspace, or twitter, or down the pub.
This will change-- but for now we can use our superpowers to do what we used to do-- talk to the people that we talk to, but being social media into the discussion-- and bring these people back with you.
We all joke that "Only my mom reads my blog"-- but does she? What other blogs does she read? What about your Aunt? and the PTA?
I mean for my girl to dig it, it has to be transparent, just turn a knob and listen (radio/tv I guess).
Mobile phones and SMS are transparent technology, it is easy, simple. A fridge is simple technology, it keeps stuff cold simply.
When we have podcasts transparently available in phones/tv set top boxes/car radios we might reach out a bit more?
Dang i'm in danger of rambling.
How to extend it out further? Post other people's reports. Recruit a street team of passionate Lo-Fi music fans, of Streeter fans. Bring the noise to more communities. Where's Lo-Fi Seattle? Lo-Fi Boston? Bring out the Lo-Fi Network.
Thanks for your thoughts.
Gotta change that on the quick fast.... or atleast find a local community that is open to give it a go.
But we still need to get our moms and little league coaches and PTO buddies to go in and listen-- good content is the key. Give them what they want and they will go for it.
High school parents? give them Financial Aid podcast-- tell them how to get it. "Heroes" addicts? get them over to the 10th wonder. This is what makes fans.
I recorded audio on my first ever "producing podcasts for others" consulting job this am. It went well. I am both happy, thrilled and scared out of my mind. The client is happy, even before the thing is edited. They have big plans, and if the trial version works well, this could be huge and consume all or most of my time. It could mean hiring other people and being a real business person.
And, this means no longer being an amateur. It's no longer hoping things will go well, but things are going well, indeed. And it means deciding where you fit into a project that could end up consuming you, in a good way, but consuming you nonetheless.
I only have so many hours in the day, and that is becoming tragically clear, as I figure out what obligations I can shed and which ones I want and need in my life. And part of social media means being social- something I'm good at, but where do you draw the line between real world and virtual?
Let's face it- put up or shut up is scary. If you go beyond your comfort zone and bring others into the fold, it means you take on responsibility as well. You need to mentor them. You need to show them the ropes and help them see the value, both personally and professionally. And then when they get excited and say- "Cool, let's do it!" you have to be willing to follow through, as part of that relationship.
In some ways, when you live outside the mainstream, you can become comfortable in that role. It is awesome beyond belief to find others like us, to form these great and vibrant communities, but you also need to participate, and this takes time and emotional effort if nothing else.
When you step off the cliff, or out of the bowl, is there any turning back?
I think our biggest risk is burning out before the potential really comes to fruition- Seth Godin talks about this when he talks about the Dip- can we weather the storm until the momentum carries us forward to true remarkability?
Working toward getting this group interested and online is something I'd really like to work towards. I agree with Doug, good, well written, and valuable content is key.
What a wonderful post. Manifesto indeed! I've forwarded it along to a couple of "conversation" thinkers.
Here's a quick story.
I'd been down on Twitter. After two weeks of playing with it I thought, "Not for me." I met with Robert Scoble two days ago, and at the end of our session, he sent out a Tweet saying that he had just met with me and put in my website address. In the next hour, I received 60 emails asking to be my Twitter friend. I said yes to all.
One of my new "Twitter friends" went to my blog, and read the post "How Do You See the Obvious" http://blog.creativethink.com/2007/01/how_do_yo... She liked it and wrote it up on "StumbledUpon" (which I had never heard of). In the next three hours, I received 500 visitors to my blog to read that post.
Needless to say, I'm not as down on Twitter as I was. Interesting dynamic taking place.
Best wishes to you and your readers!
At the very least, my profile, or my cmments link, link to my own blog (like it does here-- ahem), which a few people might follow and then through my posts and my blogroll through to other thing. It really is a web.
Ok, now I'm rambling
Oh-- and thanks, Annie, apparently I made a good point earlier-- that happens on occasion
Great thoughts, great timing on the post. I'm the same kind of nerd, was unabashedly visible with it in school, then dampened it behind a more mundane mask in order to be a "successful professional".
Now I'm coming full circle. I love those nerdy things and even more, I realize love my fellow nerds wih our special combination of intelligence, creativity, passion and wit.
So, what am I doing? Well, I've decided to gather a small group of rebels to revolutionize tabletop gaming - if we don't bring it into the digital age so it can thrive and prosper, it will surely die and our grandchildren will never enjoy the unique social experiences of tabletop gaming (D&D, board games, miniatures, card games et al).
The amazing thing is how the universe seems to be pulling me along, easing the path to make this work...but that's another post. :)
FAP Listenership breaks down roughly at 60% students, 20% parents, and 20% industry professionals. 3,500 listeners per episode over a 90 day period, give or take. Top episode has had 33,000 listens. Feedburner pegs about 850 in a 24 hour period.
Good question - how do NASCAR fans find other NASCAR fans - and do you really need to be a NASCAR fan to hold a conversation with them?
My reality check is telling me this.
The podcasting and video blogging industry is going to continue to grow.
Public awareness will continue to climb, however, it will be from things like repurposed content of a radio talk show, or when they figure out that they can watch Heroes online at anytime.
The voice of the stuff which we're all interested in will continue to remain small, even if we band together...unless, someone with some deeeeep pockets takes it mainstream.
Sort of like when skateboarding was a fringe-hobby but then the x-gen'rs got ahold of it (read, marketing dollars) and turned it into an extreme sport. These days, it's an Olympic event.
I really like this post a lot. I had read "Web 2.0 sucks" yesterday by way of Scoble's linkblog on Twitter. Given some of the recent communications I've had with you, the "we're talking to ourselves" statement "was a whack on the side of the head". As you know, right now in my professional world I'm a blogvangelist. So far, I have taken more of an opportunistic, one-by-one approach with my "Guide to Web 2.0" email, but if it gets the ball rolling and makes me feel like I'm helping, educating and inspiring, it's a step forward. I do think you need to blogvangelize where the audience is either physically, mentally or logistically, logistics meaning their tools. My clients use email that's how I reach them. What I find is that once you start to get the word out, whether or not you are being effective or making an impact, you get more confident and get more ideas and get momentum. It will all build on itself. So my "Web 2.0 guide for investors" email can morph into a blog post, a newsletter, even a Google groups page. Or I can includes links for wikis and social media and netvibe universes.
Another example was the gang reaction yesterday to a verge-of-quitting Twitterer and how some of us posted tips for how to make it work for her including friends she should follow.
Sometimes extending the conversation means starting the conversation. Sometimes it means defining the jargon. Sometimes it means having a lot of individual meetings. This post extends the conversation in a very positive way.
Chirs you keep amazing me with your writing and ideas. Keep them coming because they are truly inspring me to get off my ass and reach out.
-Jeff
http://blog.zemote.com
Thanks for this post and encouraging people to step into the ‘messy’ world BF (before twitter). I would encourage us all to keep in mind that it takes time to change a culture and traditional thinking. This is not just about a twitter deal or a vlog or a podcast. It's a new communication system and a very different way of interacting. Worlds are being shaken and people are trying to make sense of it in there own way.
For Annie a few baby boomers and perhaps beyond who are involved in social media: a scientist at a manufacturing company who has been bloging since 2005 http://tinyurl.com/346lgq, an 81 year old woman who is blogging and vlogging http://tinyurl.com/93wb2 and the CEO of one of the most prestigious hospitals in the world who launched a blog last summer http://tinyurl.com/24sc5p.
Here’s a suggestion .. let’s start with the next generation of business professionals. (Most kids don't get how social media fits into the bigger picture.) There are a few innovative profs who are bringing it to their students but not enough. Add one more audience to your list to reach out to. Why not a course on social media in marketing? Or one on citizen journalism? Think bigger. Why not an entire discipline? Let me know how I can help.
Too many things to comment on. I'm going to bookmark it somewhere prominent.